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Baldur's Gate 3: Find Your True Love with This Comprehensive Romance Guide

In the world of Baldur's Gate 3, relationships are as vital as battles. This guide offers insights into building connections with different characters, helping players understand each character's unique preferences and values to maximize favorability.

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Craft Your Destiny:

Choice-Driven Romances: Tailor your approach to each companion, shaping relationships through dialogue and actions. Explore diverse paths based on your preferences, igniting passionate encounters or forging deep connections.


Unlocking Hearts: Unravel the personalities and desires of your companions. Every NPC possesses unique values and interests. Through interaction, uncover their secrets and make choices that resonate with their soul.


Maximize Your Favor: Master the art of building affection. This guide equips you with the knowledge to maximize your favorability with each companion, earning their trust and igniting the spark of love.


Remember:

Dive Deeper: Explore individual companion romance guides to delve into the intricacies of each relationship.

 

Baldur's Gate 3 Shadowheart Romance Guide

Baldur's Gate 3 Shadowheart Romance Guide

Background: Encountered aboard the Nautiloid during the prologue, Shadowheart is a follower of Shar with a preference for kindness and manipulation over violence.

Location: Nautiloid during the prologue.

Increase Favor: Use trickery and manipulation over violence, expose lies, express anti-Gith sentiment, show kindness to animals, aid the less fortunate, demonstrate compassion to children.

Decrease Favor: Deceive her, exercise unnecessary violence, espouse pro-Gith views, humiliate her, show favoritism toward the wealthy.

Romance Options

To successfully romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3, you must focus on gaining her approval before the Rescue Druid Halsin quest, ideally reaching a high approval rating by the time of the refugee celebration following the Save the Refugees side-quest, which typically occurs around 20 hours into the game.

Once you've achieved the necessary approval, follow these dialogue prompts during the refugee celebration to advance the romance:

  • Choose dialogue options that express interest in Tieflings.

  • Show concern about Shar's approval.

  • Agree to share a bottle if she asks.

  • Offer to find her after everyone's turned in for the night.


If you've successfully progressed the romance, head to a bedroll where you'll have the option to spend the night alone or with Shadowheart, leading to a mild romance scene. However, this is just the beginning of the relationship.


In Act 2, Shadowheart's love interest remains dormant due to larger events unfolding, such as dealing with the Shadow-Cursed Lands and journeying to Moonrise Towers. To further the romance, proceed to the Gauntlet of Shar and undertake the "Find the Nightsong" quest.


Upon completing the Gauntlet of Shar, you'll encounter the Nightsong, an imprisoned Aasimar woman. Your choices here will determine the fate of your romance with Shadowheart. Opt to save the Nightsong to continue the romance, as any other choices will result in Shadowheart leaving your party and ending the relationship.



Saving the Nightsong will cause Shadowheart to become a Cleric of Selune, freeing her heart to pursue a true romance with your character. This decision solidifies the romance and allows it to progress further.

 

Baldur's Gate 3 Astarion Romance Guide

Baldur's Gate 3 Astarion Romance Guide

Background: Encountered next to the destroyed mind-flayer ship, Astarion prefers those who support his nature and condition and align with creatures of evil nature.

Location: Near the destroyed mind-flayer ship.

Increase Favor: Be supportive of his nature and condition, align yourself with evil creatures, be ruthless to those he views as weak, demonstrate power over others, appreciate fine arts, be cruel to others, let him bite you.

Decrease Favor: Engage in acts of charity, show kindness towards the weak.

Romance Options

As you embark on romancing Astarion, you can monitor his approval rating of you on the character sheet. The objective is to attain a high level of approval, and it's preferable to achieve Astarion's approval prior to the Rescue Druid Halsin quest. In a typical playthrough, it might take approximately 20 hours of gameplay to reach this stage. If his approval rating of you is sufficiently high by the time you partake in the camp celebration following the Save the Refugees side-quest, you'll have the opportunity to further your flirtatious interactions with him at that juncture.

 

To successfully romance Astarion at the camp, you'll need to choose the following dialogue prompts:

  • Really? Saving lives is awful?

  • True, the goblins would have thrown a wilder party.

  • And what’s your idea of 'a little fun'?

  • All right, let’s do it. I’ll see you later.

 

If you've earned Astarion's approval and opt for these prompts, you'll be able to invite him to your bedroll when you head there for the evening.

 

Baldur's Gate 3 Gale Romance Guide

Baldur's Gate 3 Gale Romance Guide

Background: Gale is a character with a rich character arc, valuing acts of heroism, kindness where there is no gain, interest in the arcane and arts.

Location: Varies throughout the game.

Increase Favor: Perform acts of heroism, show kindness without expectation of gain, show interest in the arcane and arts, avoid violent solutions, give him magical artifacts to consume.

Decrease Favor: Engage in selfish acts, refuse to help others in need.

Romance Options

To initiate a romance with Gale in Baldur's Gate 3, you must pay attention to two key encounters. Initially, focus on conversing with him frequently while at camp to gradually earn his approval. Once you reach a moderate level of approval, he'll confide in you about his condition and seek your assistance in acquiring an artifact necessary to manage it.

As your bond with Gale deepens, he'll gradually reveal more about the enigmatic Weave and eventually suggest sharing an experience within it.

To commence the process of romancing Gale, select the following dialogue options:

  • "Magical." or "You're a good teacher."

  • Treasure the moment. It's an opportune night for intimacy.

  • Envision yourself kissing him.

When you next engage with him, prompt Gale to reflect on your shared encounter in the Weave. Continue cultivating his approval, and after another night at camp, he'll approach you with gratitude.

To successfully pursue a romance with Gale, opt for the following dialogue choices:

  • You're certainly welcome.

  • Let's enjoy ourselves, just the two of us. What might that entail?

  • Your straightforwardness about your intentions is refreshing.

  • I find that idea quite delightful.

Proceed to your bedroll for the night, where you'll have the option to invite Gale to join you. Choose this option to share a kiss and invite him to spend the evening with you, triggering an intimate cutscene.

 

Baldur's Gate 3 Karlach Romance Guide

Baldur's Gate 3 Karlach Romance Guide

Background: Karlach is a sweet and hopeless romantic, preferring intimate settings like campfires and starry nights.

Location: Risen Road Waypoint area.

Increase Favor: Engage in dialogue about her past, demonstrate empathy and understanding, participate in romantic activities.

Decrease Favor: Fail to engage with her, show indifference or hostility.

Dialogue Choices

If Karlach's approval rating of you is high enough, you can proceed with your romance at the camp. Engage her in conversation and select the following dialogue prompts. Keep in mind that different lines may also lead you to this same outcome:

 

  • "I want to talk about your Infernal Engine."

  • "You got your second upgrade. How does it feel?"

  • "I've never been more excited for anything in my life."

  • "Of course. Nothing would make me happier."

 

Next, at the bedroll, opt for the following options:

 

  • "Go on."

  • "I'm yours, Karlach."

  • "I thought you'd never ask."

 

Following these choices, you'll share a passionate night with Karlach. Afterward, to maintain her favor, continue discussions about the relationship and express your feelings for this fiery heroine.

 

Baldur's Gate 3 Minthara Romance Guide

Baldur's Gate 3 Minthara Romance Guide

Background: Loyalty to the Absolute and siding with the Goblins are crucial for romancing Minthara.

Location: Varies based on player choices.

Increase Favor: Show loyalty to the Absolute, prioritize her goals and ideals, side with the Goblins.

Decrease Favor: Display disloyalty, prioritize personal goals over hers, side against the Goblins.

Romance Options

If you're interested in engaging in a celebratory encounter with Minthara, immediately after the raid, opt for the following dialogue choices:

  • "It's been a privilege to fight alongside you."

  • "Embrace the change."

  • "Open your mind."

Following these prompts, you'll have the opportunity to invite her back to camp for a celebration. Once you've returned to camp, solidify the arrangement by speaking with her and selecting these options:

  • "Yes, I'm yours, Minthara."

  • "Do as she says."

  • "I want you."

This will result in a passionate night with Minthara. However, there's a twist! Later in the evening, she'll return with intentions to eliminate you. If you wish to survive and potentially recruit her as a companion, you must convince her of your allegiance to the Absolute. Failure to do so will lead to a confrontation where you'll need to succeed in a persuasion check while focusing on her desires.

 

Baldur's Gate 3 Halsin Romance Guide

Baldur's Gate 3 Halsin Romance Guide

Background: Halsin is a druid who values respect for nature and general acts of kindness and heroism.

Location: Shattered Sanctum within the Goblin Camp.

Increase Favor: Respect nature, show kindness to animals, support his druidic beliefs, engage in acts of kindness and heroism.

Decrease Favor: Disrespect nature, engage in acts of cruelty, show indifference to his beliefs.

Romance Options

Once your approval rating with Halsin is high, you can initiate a romance arc with him at the camp. And, trust me — Halsin's passion for adventure isn't limited to when he's exploring Faerun (wink wink).

 

You can romance Halsin with the following dialogue prompts, although note that other dialogue selections may yield similar outcomes:

 

  • "You're welcome."

  • "What are you saying exactly?"

  • If you've already romanced another character: "I'd be lying if I said I wasn't interested - but I'm already in a relationship."

  • "I will speak to [character's previously-chosen romantic partner]."

 

Afterward, you must speak with your chosen romantic partner to secure their approval. Once you've done this, continue romancing Halsin by selecting the following dialogue option:

 

  • "[Partner] is open to what you proposed."

 

Continue the romance with Halsin at the bedroll and affirm your interest with these options:

 

  • "Put your doubts aside. I'm here."

  • "Of course. What else do you think I'm here for?."

 

This will lead to an intimate scene with Halsin. We won't spoil anything for you, but if you've heard whispers about a certain animalistic Baldur's Gate 3 romance, this is where you'll find it.

 

Baldur's Gate 3 Lae'zel Romance Guide

Baldur's Gate 3 Lae'zel Romance Guide

Background: Lae'zel values force and bloodshed, appreciating those who follow her domineering lead.

Location: Throughout the game, especially during the Save the Refugees quest.

Increase Favor: Make pro-Gith statements, follow her lead, show aggression, demonstrate combat expertise, be efficient.

Decrease Favor: Use non-violent tactics, disagree with her, make anti-Gith statements.

Romance Options

In contrast to the flirtation styles of your other companions, Lae'zel's approach is very direct. If you have successfully earned her approval, you can romance her upon rescuing Halsin and completing the Save the Refugees quest. There will then be a refugee celebration at camp.

To successfully romance Lae'zel, make the following dialogue selections:

  • Are you… asking for sex?

  • Yes. I will share my bed with you tonight.

If you're eager to get down, need to return to a bedroll. You'll then have the option to invite her in for some boom-chicka-pow-pow. This will then lead to a NSFW scene featuring you and your Githyanki lover.


In conclusion, "Baldur's Gate 3" offers a rich and diverse range of romance options, including compelling storylines, intimate scenes, and intricate dialogue choices.


This comprehensive guide provides valuable insights into navigating the complexities of romance in the game, from building connections with different characters to maximizing favorability and progressing through each relationship. Whether you're seeking passionate encounters or forging deep emotional bonds, this guide equips you with the knowledge and strategies to navigate the world of romance in "Baldur's Gate 3" effectively.

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